Remember Eamon? Boy, that was a good song... :)
You know what they say about karma - do good to others and good will be done to you. Apparently, there's inflation in the karma department, 'cause the more good I do, the more things come back and bite me in the ass.
Today, walking home from work, I met a 20-something girl with a dog at a narrow passage. It was either squeeze in and demand to pass before her, to be nice and let her pass first. I gave her a smile and let her pass. She gave me a nasty stare and mumbled "You could've walked first, fucking bitch..."
Kindness never pays off. Or maybe I live in a rude place. Like that other time, when I stood up to let an older woman sit. She looked offended at me and yelled straight out, like I had done her a huge, personal injustice "I'm not a fucking invalid!".
Is the society getting less and less well-behaved? Is pushing ahead and trotting over people rewarded, while trying to do something nice for your fellow man, how small and insignificant it may be, is frowned upon to the point where the do-gooder should get used to comments like "fucking bitch"?
So, how did I respond to the little woman with a big mouth on her? I was on the verge of telling her "If you speak to me like that ever again, you'll be shitting your own teeth out!", but I didn't. I've learned a long time ago never to argue with the mentally challenged - they'll drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience. Besides, who knows, that kind of arrogance and stupidity might be contagious.
Besides, in an age where a twelve year old can severely beat up a fifty year old for not giving him a cigarette, you better not argue at all. Unless you've got a black belt in whop-ass.
I don't. All my belts are at the cleaners.
Oh, and PS - loved FURB too...
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You don't need to say anything: people like that are living in a miserable, 'I'm-so-hard-done-by' bubble of their own creation.
And by being rude to you, they just made themselves feel even worse. While you can feel cheerful about trying to be nice.
Perhaps you have advanced to the stage of karma where "no good deed goes unpunished?"
I cant believe she actually said that.. I dont really believe in karma.. But that doesnt mean I don't do nice things.. I just dont expect anything back.. Cause the less you expect, the less dissapointed you are with the cruel world..
LOL!
good story!
you do seem to be meeting many unreasonable people, esp that girl with the dog. one never knows how to please some ppl...lol
as for the old woman, I DO always think a few times before offering my seat, cos i picture that the day I do may be the day some woman realizes that she's old ;-)
Mandy you're probably right. What kinda freakes me out, though, is that more and more people stop respecting others, and just focus on the me...
Then again, to all, they do say that The road to hell is paved with good intentions. I'm inclined to agree.
Ef, eh, sad but true.
Melissa I was kinda stunned myself, but thankfully I managed not to say something back. Most often mouth and brain have no connection and I burp out things that should never cross my pearly whites...
eve not a story, my life, sadly enough. But yeah, people are rude.
>Like that other time, when I stood up to let an older woman sit
My dad (in his 70s) objects to people giving up their seat for him. He is as strong as a goat and can walk for hours and objects to people thinking that he is old.
And I'm happy with that. He can feel as young as he likes.
Who-hoo! I also love that Eamon song- but get constantly laughed at because of it. I think it was the best pop song of that year- by miles and so did Simon Cowell
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